We know what it’s like to lose someone and we aren’t afraid to talk about it.

 
 
 

The Dinner Party is building a worldwide community of 20- and 30-somethings who have each experienced the loss of a parent, partner, child, sibling, other close family member, or close friend.

 
 
 
 
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The Dinner Party tables are regularly meeting in nearly 100 cities around the world including:

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Northeast Region

New Haven, CT
Amherst, MA
Boston, MA
Cambridge, MA
Chelmsford, MA
Hopkinton, MA
Somerville, MA
Portland, ME
Cedar Grove, NJ
Hoboken, NJ
Medford, NJ
Brooklyn, NY
Buffalo, NY
Hastings on Hudson, NY
Manhattan, NY
Queens, NY
Allentown, PA
Philadelphia, PA
Pittsburgh, PA
Newport, RI
Providence, RI
Northfield, VT

Midwest Region

Chicago, IL
Naperville, IL
Bloomington, IN
Indianapolis, IN

Ann Arbor, MI
Detriot, MI
Kalamazoo, MI
Minneapolis, MN
St. Paul, MN
Kansas City, MO
St. Louis, MO
Cleveland, OH
Cincinnati, OH
Columbus, OH
Madison, WI
Milwaukee, WI

South Region

Washington, D.C.
Miami, FL
Orlando, FL
Atlanta, GA
Loganville, GA
Louisville, KY
New Orleans, LA
Baltimore, MD
Bethesda, MD
Salisbury, MD
Carrboro, NC
Charlotte, NC
Raleigh, NC
Greenville, SC
Chattanooga, TN
Nashville, TN

Austin, TX
Dallas, TX
Houston, TX
Arlington, VA

Western/Mountain Region

Anchorage, AK
Berkely, CA
Irvine, CA
Huntington Beach, CA
Long Beach, CA
Los Angeles, CA
Oakland, CA
Pasadena, CA
San Diego, CA
San Francisco, CA
San Jose, CA
San Juan Capistrano, CA
San Mateo, CA
Santa Barbara, CA
Sacramento, CA
Phoenix, AZ
Portland, OR
Denver, CO
Colorado Springs, CO
Boulder, CO
Fort Collins, CO
Honolulu, HI
Las Vegas, NV

Albuquerque, NM
Salt Lake City, UT
Seattle, WA

Outside the U.S.

Melbourne, Australia
Sydney, Australia
Edmonton, AB, Canada
Vancouver, BC, Canada
Winnipeg, MB, Canada
Ottawa, ON, Canada
Toronto, ON, Canada
Montreal, QC, Canada
Saskatoon, SK, Canada
London, England
Oxford, England
Tel Aviv, Israel
Amsterdam, Netherlands

There are between 1 and 50 tables in each of these cities.

Want to join an existing table? Apply and join the waitlist here.

Don’t see your city on the list? Start your own table

 

How The Dinner Party Works

 

Curious how this thing works?
Check out our illustrated guide below, or read through our FAQ’s.

 
 
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1.

You join the club nobody wants to join

You lose someone significant in your life: a parent, sibling, partner, child, or close friend, whether 3 months ago, 3 years ago, or 3 decades ago.

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2.

You feel a little bit like an alien

It’s harder to connect with family or friends. You feel isolated, alone, unsure of how to move forward with your life.

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3.

You find out about The Dinner Party

You think “What! This exists?!” and fill out submission form to “Join a Table”. It’s a little long, by design. We want to give you a chance to tell your story, to write the name(s) of those you’ve lost. A member of our staff reviews every single application we receive.

 
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4.

Our team hand-matches you to a table

Once there’s a table that’s a good fit for you, you receive an introduction email from our staff, connecting you to your trained volunteer Dinner Party Host. Don’t worry — they’ve experienced loss too.  We consider what life phase you’re in, the type of loss you’ve experienced, and, if possible, what table would be convenient given where you live. You submit a $35 membership fee to officially join. Your host emails you within a few weeks with information about the next dinner. Depending on the group, this might be the first dinner for everyone or we might match you to a group that’s already up and running.

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5.

You attend your first dinner, likely at your host’s home.

You probably experience first-dinner nerves, but you bring what you can — a bottle of wine or a loaf of bread — anyway.  You ring the doorbell or text your host and find yourself in a room with other people around your age who have also experienced significant loss. Once everyone grabs something to eat, your host will start the conversation and you’ll introduce yourself and share what brings you to the table and where you’re at with your loss right now. The conversation will flow and you’ll listen while others do the same.

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6.

You keep coming back, and realize your heartache can also help create amazing friendships and forward motion in your life.

The Dinner Party is not about one-off dinners. It’s about building community and connection over time. Your table will meet every couple months or so and you’ll start getting to know more about your fellow Dinner Partiers beyond just their story of loss. You feel less alone and have new friends who you can share all parts of your story with — even the parts that rarely see the light of day.

 
 

Sound like The Dinner Party might be right for you?

 
 
 
 

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